Finding Authenticity: How my Path from Ego-Driven to Soul-Connected Started

Adwitiya Koley
4 min readMay 14, 2023

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Embark on a transformative journey as we delve into my story, a woman who discovered the path of self-realization and spiritual growth, transcending her ego to connect with her soul. Explore the challenges, insights, and profound shifts that led her to a deeper understanding of herself and the world around her.

Introduction:

  • Set the stage by introducing me, a relatable character seeking meaning and fulfillment in her life.
  • Highlight her struggles, such as materialistic pursuits. I have always loved fancy shoes and costly brands. With time, I understood how these desires are not mandatory for me to lead a better life. They can be avoided too and wont effect my life in a bad or good way. Then why continue wasting money on them?
  • I never saw people praising me or telling I am rich because I own expensive bags. Then my ego-driven desires, and a sense of disconnection from my true self took a troll.
  • I started emphasizing the universal desires for spiritual growth and self-realization i.e something that made me happy and at peace. Something of use and use to others too.

The Awakening Process:

  • Describe a pivotal moment or event that sparked my awakening and ignited my desire for change.
  • Illustrated my initial resistance or skepticism towards spiritual concepts and practices.
  • Introduced a mentor, teacher, or transformative experience that serves as a catalyst for my journey. Initially, it was the books that gave me immense knowledge and a path to pave through my goal. It is still the books that I believe cannot know less than us humans. I started reading books on hinduism, buddhism specially to understand the concept of the art of living and letting others live. One such book was the YOU CAN MY GEORGE MATTHEW

The Ego’s Grip:

  • Exploring the challenges and obstacles I encountered along my path, driven by my ego’s resistance to change. I had a mindset that my ego is the largest in this whole world and it should always be maintained no matter what good or bad I do. So, I would be mad at people at times tho it was my fault. I hated giving up and ended up fighting and loosing people around me. So now I analyse where the points I missed to look on and move forward.
  • Highlight common egoic patterns, such as fear, self-doubt, and attachment to external validation.
  • Share specific experiences or encounters that expose the limitations of the ego and its impact on personal growth.

The Soul’s Whispers:

  • Introduce the concept of the soul and its role in spiritual growth and self-realization. Practising soul encountering books like The Soul’s Journey After Death book by Imam Ibn book.
  • Describing moments of intuition, inner guidance, or synchronicities that I begun to notice and follow.
  • Illustrating how to start the cultivation of self-awareness and listen to the whispers of your soul.

The Inner Journey:

  • Dive into the practices, techniques, or spiritual disciplines that I adopted to facilitate my transformation. I started learning musical instruments. I started doing Handpan practices. It was amazing and I still do practice some.
  • Discuss the importance of meditation, self-reflection, mindfulness, or other tools for inner exploration. Understand and accept that being mindful to all our duties and daily routine even if its eating your food is important.
  • Share specific experiences or insights that deepen your connection with your inner self and foster spiritual growth. For me, its always travelling to different parts of the globe.

Integration and Expansion:

  • Show how your transformation starts to impact your relationships, lifestyle, and worldview through small small paras or news articles or publish your new interests online on apps.
  • Explore the ripple effects of your spiritual growth on your interactions with others and your ability to navigate life’s challenges.
  • Emphasize the newfound sense of purpose, joy, and alignment experiences.

Conclusion:

  • Summarizing my journey, highlighting the key milestones and lessons learned by me so you dont have to suffer more and you can start being all yourself very early in life.
  • Reinforce the idea that the transformation from ego to soul is an ongoing process, encouraging readers on their own paths of self-realization.
  • End with an empowering message or call to action, inviting readers to embark on their own journeys of spiritual growth and self-discovery.

Until then read the books till I come back with more new topics. Have a good day.

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Adwitiya Koley
Adwitiya Koley

Written by Adwitiya Koley

Somatics, inner self healing, spirituality, ADHD, Psychology . Helping you with holistic healing. Follow my blogs to learn how to start your spiritual journey

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